10 Real-Life Examples of Challenging the Norms and Reinventing Oneself

In life, there comes a time when we yearn for growth and change. A natural phenomenon deeply ingrained in our essence as human beings. We strive to expand and evolve and to do so, we must challenge what is familiar to us.

Some refer to it as shedding limiting beliefs; others emphasize the importance of letting go of the past. Today, we frame it as reinventing yourself. This process of reinvention intertwines with growth and challenges the norms that once felt comfortable.

Inspiring Stories of Personal Reinvention

During this transformative journey, individuals face a pivotal choice: to quit or to push through the discomfort and embrace their reinvention. In this blog post, we bring the inspiring stories of ten remarkable individuals who have not only chosen to challenge the status quo but have also reinvented themselves in extraordinary ways. Their journeys are here to ignite your spirit, encourage you, and ultimately inspire you to follow your heart and soul in your unique reinvention.

Podcast Interviews Challenging The Norms and Reinventing Yourself

Each one of these individuals was also interviewed on my podcast. On July 31st, all their interviews will go live simultaneously—Netflix style. Feel free to listen to each of them and get that burst of inspiration.

Make sure you’re subscribed to the Growth Thoughts podcast on your favorite platform so you won’t miss it.

 

1.From Intuitive Business Coach to Freedom Alchemist; My (Sheedia) Story

 

My journey started as a business coach when I launched my business five years ago. As I got more in tune with my intuition, I transitioned to becoming an intuitive business coach. Focusing on combining intuition with coaching to help my clients.

Over the past year, I’ve gone through my own journey of reinvention to become a Freedom Alchemist. Being a freedom alchemist means that I have embraced the role of guiding individuals on a transformative journey toward liberation and empowerment.

As an alchemist, I take inspiration from the concept of alchemy, which involves the transformation of one substance into another. In the context of freedom alchemy, I apply this concept to help individuals turn aspects of their lives that lack freedom and fulfillment into experiences that are liberating and exhilarating.

 

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With this new reinvention, I will be launching my flagship program SANCTUARY. Which will be open soon. Feel free to join the waitlist to get first dibs on the limited spots and early bird pricing.


 

2.From Corporate America to Ascension Guide; Michelle Warnica’s Story

When corporate America started feeling like an old relationship that she had outgrown, Michelle Warnica knew it was time for something different. She felt it was time to share all the wisdom and all she learned in her life. So she packed up her house and started an adventure of a lifetime.

Michelle is now an intuitive voice channel, ascension guide, and digital nomad in Mexico. Through her work, she helps others ascend into higher consciousness. She emphasizes that it’s highly important to follow one's heart, letting go of resistance, and living in the unknown.

Portrait of Michelle Warnica outside wearing pink clothes and a yellow scarf
 

 
Protrait of Elvira Cabreja with her curly hair and pink sweater

3.Victimhood to Victory; Elvira Cabreja's story

Elvira struggled with victimhood and codependency, feeling trapped and wanting to be saved. However, the birth of her children triggered a realization that she needed to make a change for their sake.

She embarked on a courageous path of leaving her prestigious corporate job and embracing entrepreneurship. This decision was supported by her passion for coaching and her ability to handle the responsibilities of motherhood. Elvira emphasizes the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.


 

4.Embracing a New Culture and Lifestyle; Bridget Merker’s Story

Originally from the United States, Bridget worked in hotels and sales for over 20 years before deciding to pursue a better life. She fell in love with the island of Curaçao during a vacation and made a bold decision to retire there with her husband at the age of 49. The emotional journey of leaving behind friends, family, and familiarity was both thrilling and scary for Bridget.

Together with her husband, she now owns an Italian Ice business. Bridget has developed a deep appreciation for the island's culture, history, and traditions. By actively seeking to understand and engage with the community, she has gained a profound perspective and continues to find joy in her reinvented life on the island of Curaçao.

Bridget Merker posing with the Caribbean Breeze Italian Ice cart in front of an Iguana mural in Curaçao
 

5.From Poverty to Principal; Cindee Borruel’s Story

Cindee's journey began in poverty with her single mother and two older siblings, who also faced challenges such as teen pregnancy and addiction. Cindee's story is one of resilience and determination, showing that it's possible to overcome difficult circumstances and reinvent oneself.

Cindee overcame all of that including being a dropout to become a school. She’s now happily married, financially abundant, and has many other goals she’s ready to conquer. Cindee encourages anyone ready to reinvent themselves to remove fear from the equation and focus on what they really want for themselves, aligning their internal dialogue with where they want to go.


 
 
 
 

6.Trauma, Transformation, and Travel; The Chanice Janssens Story

As a teenager, Chanice experienced sexual abuse. Leading her to suppress the memory and build a hard shell around herself. Years later, a life-changing accident compelled her to seek therapy and embrace vulnerability.

She’s now living her best life traveling between the Netherlands, Latin America, and Curaçao where her roots lie. This year she walked in Curaçao’s Carnival which was a wildly challenging and liberating experience. Chanice believes in consistently challenging the status quo in one’s personal life and never stop growing and learning.

 
Portrait of Chanice Janssens with a brown background. She's smiling at the camera wearing a dark green strapless top.

 

7.Adventure in Authenticity; Chereese La-Vonne’s Story

When Chereese came out as queer, her Jamaican Christian parents rejected her. She then made a conscious decision to be more visible about her sexual identity as a form of advocacy against homophobia in Jamaica.

Her life is now a pleasurable and enjoyable charmed existence, where she is always in a state of research, curiosity, and experimentation with life. Chareese emphasizes the importance of mental discipline and playfulness in creating one's reality and experiencing life without limits.

 

 

8. Finding Joy in Simplicity with Leslie Howard

This is a story of dysfunction starting as a child with an added twist of toxic relationships in adulthood. Luckily Leslie decided that will not be the end of the story. She took 12 years to be with herself, learn, grow, and find peace.

The journey of being by herself prepared her to deal with breast cancer which she got diagnosed with years later. Nowadays Leslie is the author of 2 books living a mentally and physically healthy simplistic life. She is living proof that freedom is a feeling and has nothing to do with material possessions.

Author Leslie Howard Selfie with short hair and green background

 

9.Limitless Adventure Despite Being in a Wheelchair; Christina Gill’s Story

Christina faced unexpected physical limitations that led her to leave her corporate job. After a period of uncertainty, she decided to reinvent herself and build a fulfilling life despite the challenges.

She’s now into business consulting & life/adventure coaching, she’s learned to hire teams to assist her despite her physical limitations. Christina has not allowed being in a wheelchair to stop her from traveling, she has limitless stories of adventures she’s been on.

 

Selfie of Jitske Wildschut looking into the camera smiling with a palapa in the background

10. White Awareness and Unlearning Ingrained Beliefs with Jitske Wildschut

Jitske used to live a segregated life and thought of racism as something that happened in other places, not affecting her directly. She was unaware of the impact these biases had on her interactions and perceptions of people of color.

After moving to Curaçao, Jitske has undergone a process of personal transformation and self-discovery related to issues of race and racial awareness. Jitske is now passionate about dismantling systemic racism and promoting racial awareness among white people.


 

Hear all the juicy details of these stories on July 31st

Hopefully, these stories have inspired you to challenge the norms and embrace your own reinvention. Remember, the journey of growth and change is not always easy, but it's always worth it. If you want to hear more about these remarkable individuals and their journeys, be sure to subscribe to the Growth Thoughts podcast on your favorite platform.

The interviews with each of these ten inspiring individuals will go live on July 31st. Don't miss out on the opportunity to hear their stories and get that burst of inspiration!


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Sheedia Jansen

As a Freedom Alchemist, I create safe spaces to break free of conformity and create an exhilarating, liberated existence.

http://heysheedia.com
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